guhdf The choices you get before the second day's votes are:
Defense Pact: Vote Yes
Unperson Motion: Vote No
You can't pick more than one. It may be possible that you canceled out of the choice and were able to select again, but only the second one would count.
They vote yes instead of abstaining on the defense pact if you choose option 1, and they choose abstain on the Unperson motion if you ask them to vote no (which is effectively the same) and vote yes otherwise.
The options they give you for the third day's vote are vary based on whether you choose to press for orc extermination or oppose it. Either way you can pick:
Alliance: Abstain (They abstain but vote yes otherwise.)
War Vaults Opening: Vote Yes (They vote yes but abstain otherwise.)
But if you oppose orc extermination, you can also choose:
Orc Eradication: Abstain (They abstain but vote yes otherwise.)
How does that match with your experience?