sadly eustrin final and waredn of the south count only if done after the prison, not before (as opposite the other harem quest) i don't know for wendis body (if made it before still count for the recovery).
fist thing i advise it's to check your hidden scores with a saveditor. the variable you want check is #0421:Simon recovery.
if thertia helped you should have the switch #4519:Tertia Helped On, for the lamias the switch is #4337:Lamias Spared
PS: for the pilonese bar you need enter two times for trigger the bar chat with orcent